We are still looking and working on next trip out. I do appreciate the input from all. Support group is not much of an issue for us. We will find and make new acquaintances, as will the kids should we pull the trigger.
I have no expectations of them loving it at first, or maybe ever. If they move off once they are independent that's their choice to make and we'll support them wherever they choose to land...I wish my parents had been more flexible in that regard and encouraged me to explore more, might have a better grasp on who I am and what I want...but wouldn't have what I have now so no sense in "could have, would have, wish I had, what if"...
I the idea of a vacation home in wyoming is in the mix as well, but I know that's frowned upon for other reasons, most of which I understand. God forbid someone have the means for a second home they rent out most the year...but I get the effect on housing supply and pricing for locals as well... double edge sword there...and very expensive proposition if it doesn't bring in income to offset itself at least half the year.
Lots of cards in play right now so just taking it day by day and keeping tabs on realestate I'm our current target markets.