Men’s Mental Health Challenge

[Speaks]

Good thread - will add that one thing I find helpful is a brutally hard workout first thing in the morning, makes everything else I have to face in the day easier.

Voluntary adversity solves a lot of problems.

 

[Howdoyoulikemenow]

I’m not in a similar situation but I am moving into my own place alone after living with someone for 15 years. I’m in town for now so friends are close unlike for you. Do you have a dog? Look into dating or talking to women just for companionship?

I’ve been given advice for getting a dog. I love dogs and they’re great company. Big responsibility though to do it right. My concern is when I’m not home and/or go on my out of state hunts. I am blessed that I can physically and financially still do those!!

Dating? Yes I have. Just haven’t found anyone I want to “lock it down with”. Women companionship? Yes. Tried that. What I’ve found both times is the gal (s) start out as wanting to be my buddy then next thing is they want more. Odd as it sounds I find that a breech of trust so I shut down and lose someone I thought was my friend. Both times these women meant more to me as friends vs a romantic relationship and I told them up front that’s what I was interested in. And…. Have you tried finding a nice, sane woman in today’s society? Mid sixties age range? Ain’t so easy. Dead serious.

But, I push on. I will not give up.

Happy new year to all.

 

[lyle_destroys]

I’ve been given advice for getting a dog. I love dogs and they’re great company. Big responsibility though to do it right. My concern is when I’m not home and/or go on my out of state hunts. I am blessed that I can physically and financially still do those!!

Dating? Yes I have. Just haven’t found anyone I want to “lock it down with”. Women companionship? Yes. Tried that. What I’ve found both times is the gal (s) start out as wanting to be my buddy then next thing is they want more. Odd as it sounds I find that a breech of trust so I shut down and lose someone I thought was my friend. Both times these women meant more to me as friends vs a romantic relationship and I told them up front that’s what I was interested in. And…. Have you tried finding a nice, sane woman in today’s society? Mid sixties age range? Ain’t so easy. Dead serious.

But, I push on. I will not give up.

Happy new year to all.

At the very least you have the right attitude

 

[lyle_destroys]

Start of a new week for some of us, start of a new beginning for others. Just checking in with everyone. Hope all is well boys

 

[lyle_destroys]

Hello boys, back to check in, bump this to the top. Life has been a changing for me lately. Single, moving, changing jobs. Interesting. Hope life is well for everyone, cabin fever may be setting in for some. Keep your chins up

 

[Howdoyoulikemenow]

Kinda on the fence on staying balanced. For me it’s a daily struggle. God bless all of you guys in the same camp.

 

[jahaze]

We're in the dark,cold recesses of winter. Currently longing for some sunshine and warmer temps. It's hard to find any motivation, but when I do, I feel much better. My message is, don't let yourself give up, spring is on the way!


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[11boo]

Interesting thread. My life is not what I hoped, but it is what it is. I have a lot to be thankful for.

 

[lyingflatlander]

Good thread - will add that one thing I find helpful is a brutally hard workout first thing in the morning, makes everything else I have to face in the day easier.

Speaks nailed it. I joined a gym to get ready before season a couple years ago. I strive for 3 times a week before I go to work year round. I’m in bed by 8 p.m. and up at 4:15 so I can go. Had my knee scoped after Thanksgiving this year for next season and took 6 weeks off at the gym. Man, what a difference! I couldn’t believe how moody and negative I became when I wasn’t going. If you physically can - go! I’m 52 and if I can do it so can you!

 

[Howdoyoulikemenow]

I’m sixty six. Always have tried staying in some semblance of health. I joined a gym before Christmas. Go 3-4 times per week. It’s a bit addictive. It’s an “outing” for me that I look forward to. I generally go early mornings. I keep to myself rarely speaking to anyone. Maybe that’s a spillover from my issues with loneliness?

But it’s a positive outing and I fully plan on continuing.