Live like nobody today, so you can live like nobody later.Appreciate it. Its been hard to be completely honest. All of my friends have bought homes in the last couple years, newer vehicles, having kids, etc and my wife and I cannot figure out how. We make the same amount as most of them, budget way better and we cant make any of that happen. I am beginning to think that they are slinging drugs or started an onlyfans.
But we will make it through, it may just take a lot of cussing and a few beers but we will make it through.
Just stay the course, make good decisions and as you work more you will see positive change. It's hard starting out, my wife and I went through a bunch of what you have but we stayed committed to paying off our debt knowing that the less we had to put out each month the better off we would be.
If you have any friends that you trust that are living the way that you mentioned, ask him how he is doing it and how it's going. I bet you will realize that most if not all are living paycheck to paycheck and are 1 wrong step away from being in real trouble.