Wondering If I'm The Only one in this Predicament

[doc holiday13]

I haven't talked to the majority of my siblings or parents in years. I'm mentally compartmented and a bit autistic. My brain did the mathing and realized the relationship was 1 way despite trying to mend the relationship. Its a bummer but I've made "new family". It truly doesn't bother me. I'm limited and strapped for time as it is, so one less holiday commitment, fewer birthday presents to buy, fewer arguments/disagreements

Its much like not staying in touch with people I work with. Once I leave that job, the chances of us hanging out are very low, like near zero. Only had the friendship because we were in the same hole working on the same widget 5x week

 

[Lionheart]

Maybe some more details about the “dust up” and apologies?

 

[MCS]

It can get way worse. Be civil but if he doesn't want to be friendly stop trying. I tried for years with my older brother and it was a waste of my time.

 

[CJohnson]

Spend more time talking to your brother and less time asking strangers on the internet for advice.

I’m a stranger on the internet, so take that advice for what’s its worth, lol.

 

[Svivian]

Theres two sides to a story and the truth usually lies in the middle. Theres alot of missing information for anyone to help you. You also dont seem that brotherly when you use "dude" 4 times to describe him. It also seems like you also may be holding a grudge against him.

Might be worth looking in the mirror first like another poster mentioned.