When I first quit I too was concerned about the social settings. It caused me some anxiety, since I ALWAYS had a beer in my hand right along with everyone else. It's funny how time changes things. Now I go into social situations with drinking involved and I'm thankful to not be participating, almost proud really. I still have fun and I just go home early, get a good nights sleep, and wake up feeling good. When you're sober it's eye opening to watch people get hammered in real time. Going from coherent conversations to a sloppy mess in just a few hours. I always tell myself, "Man, I'm glad I'm not going to feel like them tomorrow." I see clearly the crutch that alcohol is for my friends, the same as it was for me. It's a little depressing but also uplifting at the same time. If anyone is worried about the social situations, trust me, it isn't that bad once you're on this side of it. And if "friends" have a problem with you not drinking, then they're not your friends.