I went through a similar decision-making process a few years back and landed on the Benelli Super Vinci. It's not a cheap gun, but it has an unbeatable combination of versatility, simplicity (easiest takedown out there), reliability, weight, and recoil.
I actually can't believe how low the recoil is for how light the gun is. This is especially evident shooting side be side with my brother's Mossberg 500.
Some forum posts suggest it has issues cycling lighter target loads, but that those issues go away over time. I never ran into that problem with 1.125 x 2.75 federal target loads, but I think the issues were with the lighter stuff. I also ran a box or two of 3.5 inch goose rounds first to teach the inertia spring to play nice.
I can't remember off the top of my head, but I'm pretty sure there are a few other models with many of the same feature/benefits.
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