So....As soon as I started noticing that my oldest daughter had an interest in hunting, beyond me just asking her to go with me, I started buying her points.
She has CO elk, mule deer, pronghorn, and sheep points. I would love to hunt sheep, I fully expect to never do it, but there's a distant outside chance she could possibly draw an ewe tag and I'd hike her into whatever mountaintop we had to go to do it.
She has WY elk/MD/pronghorn points. Possibly enough to draw a decent tag next year.
She has SD deer and pronghorn (private land, I forget what they call it, special something) points. I'd like to take her one year to hunt public deer and private pronghorns, in western SD. It's one of the prettiest places I've ever been.
I think she and I both have maybe one SD Custer Park non-trophy bison point but after visiting Custer State Park....meh, I don't want to shoot their bison. I don't think she does either. We grow cows/pigs here at home and at the end of the day I'd rather eat my own beef than bison.
These points cost us a couple hundred bucks every year. We buy them for different states across different timeframes and if I forget to buy in one state one year I probably still remember the other states. If I'd been more diligent buying CO points we'd likely be on a very high quality CO antelope hunt this fall instead of a high pressure elk hunt, but we're hunting either way. As it is we have enough points to very likely do some decent WY and SD hunts across the next 2-5 years or more depending on all the factors about the future that none of us can control.
Don’t really have the money or time to do these “dream hunts” right now. I want to set him up for future adventures. Trust me if I could pull it off we would do one every year. Unfortunately I’m not in a position to just say hey buddy you drew Colorado this year, pack your bags let’s go. Trying to plan ahead
It isn't my place to nose around in someone's budget, but figure out how to do these hunts sooner rather than later. My oldest is 13. I fear I'll blink and she'll be married and my youngest will be worried about college and I'll wonder where it went.
My dad and I STTTTTTRETCHED my budget two years ago - with my wife's blessing - and brought home two nice bull elk on a hunt that he quite simply could not do now, had we waited another year. I wouldn't trade it for anything. And there was a ~12-13 year gap before that hunt happened where I never even mentioned hunting out west a lot of years because the wife/kids/budget came first. But when it's time, it's time. I skipped those years then so I could do it now, when it mattered, with the kids.
My plan is to not bother buying points for the younger kids until they show an interest in hunting. They can still tag along and pack game until then. We are actually trying to start planning a 2026 trip that the whole family will go on. Maybe two of us, three at most, will be able to get tags, but the rest of the family can go on afternoon hike/hunts with us and hopefully help pack deer or antelope. And, of course, I pray that they'll begin to show more interest, and then I'll happily buy those points.