Appreciate the responses.
Here are a few more details on my logic... I'm looking at a house today that will probably sell for 360k. It's a decent house, but not 360k-decent (that's the way things are here in SE Wisconsin right now). There is speculation that the market could pull back 30% within 3-4 years. That's 108k value on a 360k house. If I continue splitting apartment rent for $700/month (all in), that's about 25k over 3 years. Take the difference between these two, and I come out over 80k ahead with renting. If I save the difference between rent and mortgage (plus escrow, etc) over that time, I'll have an extra 40k to put down on a cheaper house in 2023-24. So that nets out at 120k ahead (on mortgage) toward the same house (or similar).
Unless I'm missing something obvious (or miscalculating), or the market behaves nothing like this expectation, this choice seems more clear. Of course, this logic ignores the lifestyle benefits of house VS apartment. Just thinking out loud...