In my area it is a seller's market, for sure. We are wanting to move but are torn over the current costs to buy again, even though we would sell high.
My advise to everyone that asks me about buying a house is to buy in a neighborhood you can comfortably afford the payment on a 15 year term, 20 year max. That of course includes escrow. I cannot stand 30 year notes due to the amount of interest you pay on the front end. Plus, if you end up moving within 5 years you've basically been a renter, because unless your house greatly appreciates, you won't have paid down any principle.
Here are two examples to prove my point. $150k house on 30 & 15 year note at 5% & 3% respectively. Yes, home prices and rates may vary.
30 year payment: $805.23
Sum of all payments (360): $289,884
Total interest paid: $139,884
15 year payment: $1,035.87
Sum of all payments (180): $186,457
Total interest paid: $36,457
Difference in int payments: $103,427!!!
Then if you factor in bi-monthly payments you could pay off that 15 year note in just over 12 years while keeping the same monthly cash outlay. You could do the same on the 30 year and get down to around 25 years, but the numbers don't lie on the shorter term. Leave some room for insurance and taxes increases, as your payment will invariably move up as they do. Plus, if you have to move in 5 years you now have a crap ton of equity because you've actually been paying toward principle. If you decide to stay you have a paid off house or a great down payment when you buy a larger home. Or turn it into a passive income by renting it out.