“TIME” is definitely the most valuable thing in every aspect of life. Balancing it never ends I have learned
I’m still trying to balance it all but I know looking back, I’ve learned some things as I approach 40 years old.
Business, especially the building/growing process, while trying to crush hunting/scouting sucked. It’s all about time management. Add trying to be a good husband, it wasn’t easy. I could bore you with a lot of details for hours, maybe I’ll do a podcast for Rokslide on it as I get the question a lot.
I know I owe my wife everything, she has never once asked me to slow down or stay home, usually encouraged me to go as she knew what it meant to me. I use to spend 90+ days between hunting and scouting a year and it really does strain every tiny bit of relationships. I know I also lost a lot of money hunting like I did, but my memories are worth millions.
When juggling it all, time management was all I felt like I was doing, I still do. I have always made sure though I took care of her, work and responsibilities, but made damn sure I made time to hunt. Sleepless nights and overtime hours were all I knew for a lot of years. If it was light outside I was working or hunting.
One thing I do know, that made a big difference and worked for “us” on the personal end, was making scouting and hunting FUN. My wife didn’t hunt when we met, and i think she thought I was nuts for a loooong time. But she had some interest, and after starting her nice and easy, doing WARM
action packed hunts (antelope or bird hunting is the greatest way imo), the wife grew a passion and started to really understand hunting and the rewards of it. Every year, I would try to build and improve on her skills every year, learning archery, long range shooting, glassing, and before long, she was addicted to the pursuit of getting better.
Recently, involving my new born daughter in everything we do helped us stay out there. A lot of woman quit after kids and I know why now
. The kid thing, damn…..It’s a challenge at times, but I wouldn’t trade it. My wife and I have really kept at hunting, and had my daughter from the time she was basically a new born on a lot of pretty serious hunting trips. She has been by my side from scouting, to hunting, camping in a tent and even killing mountain lions and bear hunting before her first birthday….the kid is truly happy outdoors. It’s what she knows.
This season was so cool and surreal for me. I got to have my daughter right by my side, while I watched her momma shoot her 5th bull elk and one of her best bulls to date. My little girl was there for every bit of it….hanging with me, grandpa and her mom smiling all the way. She can’t get enough of sticks, birds, the moon and stars, flowers, trees you name it. It’s how I think it was supposed to be.
I think a lot of guys try throwing their wives/kids into some extreme, rugged, “badass” type hunt and expect them to enjoy it…I don’t think that “all in” bullshit right out of the gate ever works.
When my girls are with me it’s an entirely different process as all I’m trying to accomplish is making sure they enjoy themselves. I have to remind myself any time spent in deer country is precious. Even if I’m only getting to glass for 3 hours and the rest of my day consists of picking flowers, watching birds and chasing grasshoppers with a 1 year old. It’s better than sitting at home on the sidelines
Good luck with the business man, dump everything you have into life, you’ll get out of it what you put in.
Great thread and some great input!
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