My wife is an absolute saint in that regard. She had medical complications from the pregnancy, was somewhat immobilized. 9 months later he still needs mama every moment of every day. I would not have made it in her situation. God bless these mothers.We were told that our daughter’s colic was likely just a brain development thing and was in part due to her developing brain not being able to handle/process all the stimulation she experienced during the day. She eventually grew out of it.
Funny thing (if you can call it funny) is always happened on my shift when my wife was sleeping so she had no idea it ever happened.
Don’t be afraid to put your child down and walk away if you get frustrated with the situation. A guy I used to work with - as calm a person as I know - told me his infant with colic made him understand how shaken baby syndrome could be a thing.
Doctors have their utility (I'm talking punch in, punch out, collecct paycheck types)... But second opinions and the wealth of knowledge and crazy rabbit holes have their place, as well .I sure wouldn’t ask for help with a colicky horse on here let alone my own get. Maybe a doc?
What?Well, these dudes will probably tell you to buy a tikka and that’ll fix it.