all of this comes down to optics, and the fact that while some guys may be genuine, there are more guys doing this just to be ass turkeys. we do not know who is who, so the old saying of one bad apple spoils the bunch applies here.
I see the same campers and tents every year in the same spots in the NF. I get there at the same time every year like clockwork. there's no way that the same campers just happen to get the same spot every time and somehow never leave tire tracks. this is the group of people that causes the responses we see here.
I have also watched people take spots only to unload a side x side and hunt somewhere else or take spots during archery season only to find they are there for gun season but use "scouting" as an excuse. this behavior is ridiculous and is a major factor in overcrowding. some people have jobs and lives and can't just get there weeks before season to fight for an opportunity to hunt and they shouldn't have to.
your reasoning is valid, and you are open to sharing the spot, but how do we know what camp is yours? for every good person there are 10 bad people doing it out of spite. we both know you see the same things a lot of us see so how do we differentiate?
what about the guy who doesn't have the luxury of just going home for a bit? he worked all year to hunt but can't because you needed a shower etc. were here to hunt until we aren't, that's it. I don't blame you for having the ability to do what you do, but feel you should be considerate of those who are less fortunate.
I don't think anyone is upset at the people who actually need to do this. we all get that life happens and we work around it, but there are more people doing it just because they feel special.