Lmao I know silly me. Should have bought a house instead of worrying about highschool English.
Seriously appreciate everyone’s insight. Finances have come up a ton. Some background on me, 155k last year DTI 2 vehicles, 45k and 18k 3 credit cards 1 is currently 80% 1 is at 30 1 is 0. Which isn’t a huge deal can 0 those out. Credit is sitting at about 720-730 depending on where I look at it. Home market here is rough. Low inventory and it’s all pretty much brand new homes in the 4-550 range. Moving isn’t an option because of work. And adding my finance isn’t an option because her credit is absolutely worthless. We are aggressively trying to get hers built up to atleast get the 18k car potentially off my credit and under her name, but not sure what the time frame of that is.
Do you NEED those car payments? One of the biggest places folks blow money is on vehicles. I see young buyers all the time that don't think they can afford a house but drive $60k vehicles...blows my mind.
I'm not even saying "only pay cash for cars", but people can do with much, much less vehicle than they have.
For reference, when I was making your income, I drove a 1998 4Runner with 250k miles on it, cost me gas, and about $1k in parts/labor a year...absolutely zero shame in it.
Take your 2 monthly vehicle payments and look at what even half that amount tossed into an index fund monthly for 20 years would do...usually a good eye opener for folks.
I'd rather have a house I owned with 2 practical but cheap cars parked out front than renting with $80k of wheeled liability.
Food for thought!