It is my soap and I will shower and scrub myself as fast or as long as I want! LOL!You are making my point. I said "..different people put different levels of importance in different things..." You wouldn't want to share it, and that's great- if you're ever in the OPs shoes, sounds like you'd choose to not have anyone else tag along. The OP obviously wants something different than that, which is also great.
"...different people put different levels of importance in different things..."