I thought I get to hunt a lot... wow do some people get to hunt a boatload!
My questions are:
1. Do you have younger children?
2. Does your spouse work full-time?
3. What are you doing rest of year?
I have a 2 year-old, and a 4 year-old. My wife works part-time (weekends, some night shifts) where I work FT.
I got to hunt about 4 full days in October for archery deer season here. I got to hunt about 3 full days after that between November to December. I take 2-3 days off in January to scout. So overall, I'm getting around 10-12 days to hunt total. I don't go fishing much right now during summer unless it's with my father-in-law. I spend about 4-5 hours each week shooting my bow throughout the year.
To me, this was plenty and I almost felt spoiled I got to go so much with young kids. My wife had some 'not happy with me moments' but we had an immediate civilized conversation about it. I learned she was essentially jealous that I had a hobby and she didn't (didn't say those exact words). And she was pissed she has to be with kids all week where I can take PTO (I have a lot) to go off by myself. We worked it out, and she's had to commit to takening up a hobby and putting time into it. I will also grab the kids 1-2 a week during hunting season and tell her she has day/afternoon whatever off. This all seemed to help.
When I was just out of college/not yet married, hunted almost every other day.