Everyone doesn't hate outfitters. It just seems that way because of all the peons online who want to throw their negative two cents in. Mostly:
1. DIYers who want everyone to know that they are alphas
2. Residents who are want to villify non-residents (and outfitters) and blame them for their perceived lack of hunting opportunities.
3. Hunters who were shopping for a budget hunt or did poor research in choosing a quality guide.
4. Hunters who had a bad experience (OP).
**It's kind of like watching the news and thinking that what they present is that state of things and how the nation feels, when in fact only a small vocal minority are making the noise.**
There are more good outfitters than there bad ones, and there are more happy clients out there who use outfitters and will continue to do so, but they:
1. Remain silent because they don't want to be harassed by the masses.
2. Are busy working (to pay for hunting trips) and living their life, and don't use their time arguing with/trying to impress strangers online.
3. Don't work a desk job where they have nothing better to do than up their post count on forums.