What do you mean by hand winch? Like a come along or something like a hand crank that you use on a boat to trailer it?Mine's a 2012 Sport and have resisted the urge to mod it much. I run slightly oversized tires (265/70/17's)- studded Nokian Hakkapeliita LT 2's in the "winter" and KDO2's the rest of the year- both E rated. I've got some aluminum skid plates up front (Ricochet Off-Road) and a soft-topper on the back.
I have a small led light bar that will be mounted on my front bumper guard (Avid Off Road)- have to straighten out the guard a little (deer bent it a wee bit).
I do carry a pretty complete recovery kit- large hand winch, hi-lift jack, straps, traction boards, shovels, chains, etc.
As a game warden I got into (and mostly out of ) a lot of terse situations with my trucks and can say with certainty that my Tacoma runs circles around all of the full sized trucks I've used.