I would go drive both and decide. I have had two dodge cummins (not cummings gents) and will probably never buy a gas truck again if I can help it. I bought my 2006 with a 6-speed manual for 34K, put 120,xxx miles on it and sold it to a guy for 28,500. You will never do that with any gas truck. I will never buy anything Ford with the words diesel after it. the 7.3 and 6.0 both depend on high pressure oil pumps (HPOP) to work injectors, and the high pressure oil pumps are a joke on both. This is the reason they can be a pain to start in cold weather because oil is thick and that HPOP is working hard to fire injectors. They are repairable/rebuild-able, but a real PITA. I have bullet proofed several 6.0's and they are a real pain. Ford sued international over warranty issues with the 6.0, and eventually built there own engine in house in 2011 which they still use after some moderate changes. 2011-2012 6.7 powerstrokes had fuel system problems and turbo problems like crazy and everyone I know was denied warranty by Ford because ford said they had water in their fuel. New fuel sytem costs ~ $11,000. Ford since went to a bosch fuel system's and borgwarner turbo chargers to help eliminate the problems. Just do a quick search of powerstroke problems and decide for yourself.
I have nothing bad to say about the Duramax Allison combo. GM just announced prior to the Texas state fair that the new duramax engine will be the L5P version (LB7, LLY, LBZ, LMM, and LML have been the previous engine versions), so the possiblity of picking up a used LML or LMM cheap is possible from a private seller who is wanting the new engine platform. The earlier versions 2001-2005 (LB7 and LLY) did have injector problems, but nothing to concerning now.
I have a 2014 3500 single wheel cummins and its been great so far. 59K on the clock so far and trouble free. I deleted and tuned mine. Tuning isn't bad, you just have to educate yourself. The guys who talk about expensive repairs are clueless of what they are doing to a engine when tuning it. They add efi live or an edge programmer to there truck with an 8" lift and 37" tires and are upset the transmission was destroyed and the motor was burnt up. There is no fix for stupidity, but money can help. Programmers gain more power by advancing timing, adding fuel earlier, etc. All of this can burn a motor up due to exhaust gas temps getting to high and melting holes in pistons, popping head gaskets, cracking heads has happened, transmission trouble, etc. Running reputable products and paying attention will save you some trouble. I tow 24-25k behind my truck often and it pulls like a locomotive.
Any of the three diesel's may give you trouble, but if you educate yourself and take care of it you will be pleased. I am into diesel performance and pretty handy under the hood of anything, so this is just my two cents. All three trucks have EGR coolers which are a joke and will cause problems eventually. Excessive idling and not running the truck hard enough cause most of the issues you read about. EGR coolers clog up with soot, which causes coolant to overheat, which causes head gaskets to pop. Regen's on the diesel particulate filter are hard on trucks, but again if you run the truck and don't baby it around you will be fine. I tell folks to run them like you stole them, allow them to idle for a minute or two before shutting them down, longer if you just finished towing (allows turbo's to cool) and changing your oil with good oil and using quality fuel filters will make you love a diesel truck. After all that you are probably thinking no way on the diesel, but it's not a big hassle to own one.
Sorry for the long post