Me, enlighten? Comedy Central here you come, Robby. If you wanted to be enlightened, call Hobbs, Scotty or OP. They actually kill shit. I just pack weapons around the mountains and pretend.
There is a lot to unpack in this thread, and about three novels could be written regarding each of its topics.
To answer OPs question. No lowering of my standards here. I havent killed a deer since 2016 and have no interest in shooting one I dont want to shoot. The only way I would kill a young deer is if it was already packaged and in the freezer for me. I have zero problem with people killing whatever they want. They got the tag, it allows them to take a public resource and privatize it. They can do what they wish with that ability. For those that say "you shouldnt be entitled to kill a deer just because you have a tag" or any variation of that. Whats more entitled, killing any deer you want because you have a tag or telling people what deer they can kill with the tag they got? If the tags says they can shoot a deer with horns, they can kill a deer with horns. Thats the way it should be.
As for the waiting for tags and specifically in Utah. There are about 1000 people that you should listen to before me but my new years resolution is to listen more and talk less and I got two more days until that hits. So
I hunt one unit in Utah and pay close attention to its draw odds. Its not a great unit, in fact people use to and some still do apply for it just so they can get a tag and hunt the extended season. They have no intention of actually hunting during general season. For archery, looking back, 2019 was the last year that you had a chance at drawing with 0 points. In 4 years it has seen a point creep of .7 or .175 per year. If I was to say, you know, I am willing to wait 3 years to get a tag, I actually better be willing to wait 4. Here is the kicker though, that is just for the first tag. The next tag will take 5, if creep holds the same. Your "I am willing to wait three years to get a tag," just became an average 4.5 years and your just getting started.
The bigger question that you need to ask yourself when that thought comes into your head, is have I looked at the places that have gone to that model? Has the hunting gotten better? I dont know every area in the western US and am I sure that there is one or two that it has but S. Utah has basically gone to that model over the last decade or so ( I dont follow its odds as close) and people are still complaining about the quality of deer.
The second question that you need to ask yourself is do you like hunting or do you like killing? Personally, anyone that says "I like hunting so much I am willing to only go every 3-5 years, for 5 days because I want to hunt big bucks" truly should be saying "I want to kill a big buck to put on the wall so I can tell people I killed a big buck." It does not compute to me that people can say "I like hunting so much I am willing to advocate to do it the least amount as possible." I get that we have to do things for the betterment of the resource and that will take sacrifice but the resource is deer, not big deer.
In the last 40-50 years, Utah has cut about 75% of its deer tags. Is the hunting better? Are there better bucks on the landscape? Is it less crowded?
The "you better be careful what you wish for" holds true when it comes to tag allocation. Like I said, I have had 6 tags in the last 7 years and have killed zero deer but I had a tag and the opportunity to hunt. The tag is the opportunity. If you just want to look at big deer, Utahs LE units have them and nobody is stopping you from going.
Take it for what you paid for it, I was a below average student in school and my life proves that I am still well below average at most everything. I really just hope people are truly thinking things through and are truly honest with themselves when they advocate for changes.