If you're not to stuck on the Denver area you may want to look north. I moved from Kentucky to Colorado in '09. My wife grew up in Loveland and I was the one that left everything behind.
I moved out here during great depression, after the place I had worked for 12 years, shut it's doors. Colorado was not hit as hard as Kentucky and the school system was leaps and bounds above most everything Kentucky had to offer. I've been out here 8 years in June and have never looked back. I sometimes miss Kentucky, but I was back there a couple of months ago and could not wait to leave.
Like I said, I live in Loveland and work in Broomfield. My commute is @45 minutes. In heavy traffic I can make it home within an hour. If you live in the metro area and live 15 miles from your work, it can take you much longer than that to get home.
I am 15 minutes from the Great Plains, 15 minutes from the mountains. If I want to visit a major metro area, I can head north or south, Cheyenne or Denver...
Where you settle is really up to you, but come out here and take it all in before you jump into a decision.