The real trophies are the memories

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By all normal standards, my season was a bust. My elk/mule deer trip got cut way short with empty tags, and I only success was a doe and a forky buck behind the house.

But so far in life, it’s beaten any season on record by a long shot.

This is the first season my son, who is 5, has really had a chance to tag along… And for a 5 year old, he sure did.

First night out together we had a doe come in and I took a shot at that awful 40 yard range. Short enough for them to get spooked by the bow, long enough for them to move significantly by the time the arrow gets there.

We had blood, but I could tell it was a glancing non fatal blow. He was pretty upset. I explained it was my fault for being impatient with the shot, but that if you hunt long enough, even though you do your best to be careful, occasionally you lose game. You just have to learn from it for next time.

But it didn’t matter, he wanted to get back after it. Every night after school he would ask to go deer hunting, and most nights I obliged.

Finally after 4-5 nights of no opportunities, he asked to go squirrel hunting instead. Despite it being early Nov and knowing better, I obliged and grabbed the 22 rather than the bow. I reminded myself it’s about him, and the worst case is we see some cool rut action.

Well of course we did, and we had a hot doe along with two bucks and a nice shooter 10 point come within 30 yards of us sitting up against a tree. He did a great job staying still and quiet. It was a perfect lesson for the kid… “They are out there, you just have to put in the time.”

Finally the next night, it came together with a doe.

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He was pumped. At that point he fully got the bug.

He was absolutely pumped for opening day of gun season. The night before he had all his clothes laid out which cracked me up.IMG_0484.jpeg
He got up well before daybreak and popped right out of bed ready to go. He put on his headlamp in the dark and told me “Dad I’ll get us to the blind…” It’s about 100 yards behind the house, but for a 5 yo, that takes some balls.

It was 19 F that morning, and I didn’t hear a peep about the cold, just frustration in not seeing deer. Not bad for a 2+ hr sit at his age. We hunted that night in similar conditions with similar frustrations.

Tuesday brought a healthy dose of snow and I got up early to hunt solo and let him sleep. That afternoon I asked him if he wanted to go out again and got an enthusiastic yes.

Finally at sunset that night this guy started walking across the timber…
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Let me tell you one thing, when your 5 yo has toughed it out for 3 sits in below freezing temps and he sees deer and is pumped about it, all that QDMA shit goes right out the window. 😉

Yup, it’s probably my smallest buck. It’s also probably my biggest trophy. I’ve got a 197 3/8” B&C whitetail on the wall…

This is better.

Like all Dads when I found out I was having a kid I wanted to raise my kid to like hunting. Partially out of selfish reasons admittedly, but partially out of the fact I wanted to share the amount of joy and fulfillment that it has brought me.

Thankfully through a little bit of luck, a healthy dose of patience and a little bit of divine intervention, I think I have a hunter on my hands.

He can’t wait to put that little forky on his wall, that he “helped” get. To be followed by many more I am certain. 🙂
 
Awesome!
My season has been similar in terms of personal opportunities not working out/eating tags. But, I got to watch my 10 year old son shoot his biggest buck yet and help my wife get her first elk.

I sacrificed some opportunities where I could have likely killed some really good bucks so that they could shoot but it was worth it.
 
Great write-up. Thanks for taking the time to remind us who now have kids in their 30's and 40's what it was like introducing them to hunting.
 
Good job Daddio! The smile says it all.

I been hunting w my dad for over 50 yrs. We went hunting end of October and I shot a buck - he was real happy about it. Then we went back a couple weeks later and then over Thanksgiving - he's there for the good times and everything else too. Will be rough when its his time to go.
 
That's awesome. My oldest got her first 'solo' deer this year. It's both a high and a low for me at the same time. I was in another stand with her little sister, and wasn't ready for her to graduate to doing it herself. But she didn't wait for me to get ready. On the bright side, we also spent 10 days in CO not-killing-elk this year and we were never more than a few feet apart for the entire trip.

My youngest two have been with me several times this year and the middle child had several chances at does and small bucks but she didn't want to shoot them. The youngest simply isn't ready, but he did get to see several deer within bow range.

If all goes well the youngest and I are going squirrel hunting this afternoon. :)
 
Great hunts and experience with your son.

Are you ashamed of being a hunter so you blacked out your eyes so no one would recognize you?
 
Great hunts and experience with your son.

Are you ashamed of being a hunter so you blacked out your eyes so no one would recognize you?

A lot of people on the internet with alternative motives when it comes to people’s pictures. Just not worth it


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A lot of people on the internet with alternative motives when it comes to people’s pictures. Just not worth it


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Yup.

Ive had what I would consider minor internet squabbles get real creepy, even here unfortunately… Like, digging through old posts and pointing out personal life details creepy.

Sorta like, “Nice house, shame if anything were to happen to it” type insinuations by doing so.

I’d rather not take the risk to my “real” life by posting unedited photos, especially of my kid. It’s a shame, you wouldn’t think anyone would be that low or sick, but it’s the world we live in unfortunately.
 
My best hunts are the ones shared with my kids, family, and friends. I enjoy taking my kids out on their own hunts more than mine. my two oldest have only killed turkeys since we have no luck in drawing tags. The 3 elk hunts my oldest has been on he got sick on two of those so they ended early. the third one was a OIL elk tag I had and he was with me for 4 days before he had to go back home for school. They were both super excited to shoot turkeys on special youth only draw tags. Hope 2026 is good year for us.
 
My kids burn out on deer hunting.

We went ‘squirrel hunting’ yesterday on nearby public ground. Karst geology. Sinkholes everywhere. We explored a couple of the deeper ones with a measured rope to gauge the depth (one is ~35’) and attempted to film the bottom with a video camera. We’re going to have to refine our technique for that. Video was terrible, but I have some ideas to improve it in the future.



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Yep, the Memories make it!!

I have taken a lot of big game animals in my span (a LOT that is).
At this point for me, taking another is simply taking another.
The RUSH I used to feel each and every time has diminished somewhat - still there, just not as strong.

So for some time now Ive been mentoring one or two Young Guns each fall.
Never had kids, but a lot of my Buddies do, and it is often me they turn to to bring them into the game.

A past case in point: One of my Buddies who owns a ranch next to where I often hunted had an 11 year old son.
He (the dad) approached me and asked if I would take his lad in hand to start him off hunting.
Informed me that was a direct request from the boy.
Of course I agreed.

We hunted quite hard that fall - always from blinds.
Focus was directly on getting a decent Island Blacktail Buck for him.
The tale of that hunt is quite long, so I'll just do a C&P of the right night:

"Upon arrival I indeed noted our young Lad was well prepped, and good to withstand quite the chill.
As I strode up, he informed both me & his Pa: "I have a rather strong feeling tonight is THE night"!
That brought grins from all of us, and I concurred with the Lad that I shared the exact same feeling.

As we made our way to the hunting grounds, we went over the various hand signals, the need to aim carefully with such a tight choked scattergun, and how our season had progressed thus far. Again he reiterated his instincts were suggesting we might have a chance today, and I still strongly felt the same.

Upon arrival at the blind, we settled into the task of holding perfectly still while absorbing all that nature surrounded us with.
As the time wandered by, I wasn't at first concerned - This is going to happen...
But at about 15 minutes to go to dark, without even a doe, I began to question that...
Could the Lad's & my intuition be so far off?
As I pondered these things, I began to prepare the "sometimes they simply don't show up" speech in my mind...

Then, a subtle movement in the far left corner of my eye.
A doe. Not just any doe, but the Matriarch Doe.
Her body is as big as any bucks, and she has been around more than long enough to know the ropes.
And she was right there at 30 yards - staring right at me.
Damn.
But she did not appear overly concerned, and slowly started down the path that would lead her through our shooting window, pausing only long enough to glance back behind her...
TO GLANCE BACK BEHIND HER!!!

Straining I could just make out the swaggering gait of another big body 30 yards behind and farther out than her.
Then the head cleared the brush.
HOLY CHIT!!! :oops:
I ever so slowly leaned over and in a barely audible whisper said Get your gun ready - there is a GOOD Buck coming...

The gun went up, slowly as practiced. No noise.
When the hammer went back, the doe FREAKED!
Stiff legged walking for a few seconds, then broke into a trot.
Dammit! If the buck follows suit it will present a pretty difficult shot!
Deciding to back my Young Gun up, I eased Ol' Betsy into play.
Just then I noticed the end of the Lad's barrel was trembling a bit.
Don't blame him a bit I thought...

However as the buck strutted into the edge of our shooting window, the trembling ceased, and the gun was rock steady. (y)
The Big Buck continued his strut, knowing full well he was the King of these parts, and royally showing that off.
Suddenly the shotgun beside me roared, to be following immediately by the sound of buckshot hitting a hard target.
WHACK!
I swung my barrel back and forth, finding no sign of the buck.
Where the hell did he go??
Then, a little flicker of a tail, right where I had last seen him!
I think I knocked him right off his feet said my little Buddy!
aYup! Looks like!

We sat for a few minutes, while I held Betsy on him in case he tried to get up.
Wasn't happening.
I had the Young Gun reload, and hold his gun on the buck while I cleared the blind.
He ain't going to get up he suggested, but still held tight.
Then I did the same while he joined me.

During our quiet stalk over to where he lay, I stayed poised in case of a sudden recovery.
And while doing so kept wondering if there was going to be any "ground shrinkage" between what I thought I saw, and what now lay before us.
There wasn't!

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A huge dominant Roman-Nosed four by four with most excellent brows!
In fact the best Blacktail I have even been in on, and certainly better than any I have taken to date!!

The War Cries broke forth, we hugged and did The Dance of Joy!!
The Young Gun was simply beaming, and I felt as proud as I ever had for this fine young fellow's accomplishment!
WELL DONE!!!

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I think you can tell by his expression just what the Young Gun thought of all that!!

Then it was time to call his Pa. No way the two of us could swing the bugger up onto my endgate!
And after getting the picture sent to him, Dad came a running!
More whoops of Joy, and the Pride literally burst from that Rancher's eyes!

We loaded the buck, noting he was damn heavy for a blacktail, and set off for their homestead.
Along the way, the Lad inquired: "Is it normal to shake a little after something like that?"
You Betcha it is, and here's hoping you never lose that!
In fact I was shaking a little myself!

Upon arrival and a brief discussion, the Rancher asked me to properly cape the buck for mounting!
Awesome!
That buck will be adorning their home for decades to come, and what a fitting tribute to such a Monarch!!

The Lad's eyes were still beaming as he wandered off to collect his late dinner.
A VERY Firm Handshake, and a sincere Thank You before doing so!
No problem Kiddo, I likely enjoyed that just as much or even more than you did!

Full Disclosure here: When I first laid eyes on that buck, Ol' Betsy automatically began her climb to my shoulder without me even realizing it. I had to force myself back into the situation, and cease all such thoughts instantly. And I will admit, that was a tad tough. That was and is the best Blacktail I have ever been that close to during an open season. But, my mind's eye also recognized this was not "my moment", rather that of the Ladz. Damn pleased he performed as well as he did. Extremely happy the Big Boy will be mounted and forever display just what he was. And not so far into denial that I won't admit to just a hint of jealousy!!"

Two follow-ups to that tale: That Christmas the Young Gun collected his first ever firearm as a present from me - the scattergun he took the buck with. The pix they sent sure made me smile!

That was the largest Blacktail Buck taken on Vancouver Island that year - well Book.
It won both Island Big Buck Contests, providing the Lad with a high end set of binoculars and his second firearm - a fine scoped rifle. Excellent Prizes.

But in keeping with the theme of this thread, the Real Prize was bringing a young fellow into the game in such a dramatic manner. Made my old heart glow!

When asked by Buddies why I let the Lad take the biggest one I have been on to date, there is an easy reply: Many years from now when that young man has turned old, he will be sitting around the campfire explaining to one or two youngsters he is mentoring about the old Curmudgeon that got him his first deer - likely wishing I was still kicking. And that, right there, will keep me Alive.

Rifleman86: You are doing an excellent job with your Young Guns.
And hell yeah, the Memories RULE!

Cheers,
Matt
 
Great hunts and experience with your son.

Are you ashamed of being a hunter so you blacked out your eyes so no one would recognize you?
It is probably for the best.

Ive had golks get pissy w me for things ive said online. No names, just details and pissy. Better to be not known.
 
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