A great example. This is exactly what I was referring to in my other post.
We have some friends in CA, he is a rocket scientist (literally), his wife went to a private x-ray school for about 30k a year for two years. She got out of school, had a kid...two years later had another kid, and now, 4 years later, she has no plans on going to work outside the home. She has never worked a single day as an x-ray tech, not one. Yet still has the debt to pay off.
Like you found out, things don’t always end up as you think they will, and are subject to change on a dime...
Sometimes hard to get someone to go back to work (or work that pays meaningful income or fulltime hours) after they've lived without working the job grind and life was paid in the meantime, it becomes their new norm and is tolerated/protected to some degree by society even if its against the wishes of the earner.