I had this same issue a while back when reloading a round that would shoot soft for my wife. Not that she is recoil sensitive but it was her first rifle and I didn’t want recoil to discourage her at all. I ended up with 130 gr SST’s over 53 grains of IMR 4350. Shot pretty soft out of her Tikka which is a pretty light rifle.
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