I’m a 60/40 kind of guy heavy on the PB. There is no other choice besides creamy Skippy. On a side note if you’re eating crunchy peanut butter if any kind you need Jesus.
Do yourself a favor and start your sammich building with Cinnamon raisin bread. Coat both pieces with softened real butter. Then apply your preferred percentages of PB and J or PB, honey and bacon. You'll whip a grizz's ass with a feather duster if he tries to steal it.
I no longer use jelly. I have switched to Welch's Grape Spread. It makes a superior sandwich and much easier to control the consistency at approximately a 60/40 ratio of peanut butter to spread. Anything worth doing is worth doing well....especially a sandwich.