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@yeti12 I get that. Sorry if that wasnt dripping with enough sarcasm. Point was that people make all sorts of decisions based on a combination of objective, anecdotal and emotional reasons, and to a degree, for someone who has a lot invested in it, to have your balance of objective and emotional contradicted is too often taken personally..after all, my experiences and whatever portion of my decisions that are based on those are mine and they happened, and are irrefutable…regardless of whether they are universal or consistently repeatable. I could edit my post to: humans are hard-wired to make decisions based at least partially on emotion and non-objective criteria, and many (most?) people have a blurred line between what portion of their thought process is objective and what portion is subjective, and even whennit is objective we are hard-wired to extrapolate from a small number of experiences. Its called heuristics, and it is a thing that can be predicted. The result is that anything like this will never be “settled” universally, will always result in tribalism, and it isnt possible to arrive at a universal “correct” answer…so it **MIGHT** be pointless to try.