Yep I'm right there with you...I've missed close shots and drilled long shots. Hell I missed a B&C 10pt whitetail last year at 30yds and that's a shot I can always make and flat out ruin arrows in a 3-D target at 30yds. If conditions are right my max range differs, I've shot animals at really long range before and shot them at close range, lol...I'm like everyone else, I'd prefer a 20yd shot on everything but it doesn't always work out...I'm not against shooting something at 80yds if the conditions are right and I feel right. Ethics police get under my skin, let everyone decide what they can or can not do...But make sure you can do it before you try it.
I know plenty of guys who shouldn't shoot at a deer "or anything else" at 10yds and it's a miracle if they even touch one at 20yds.
The ironic part is...at least for me...every disaster I have had has been at 40 yards or under. Over that...money. Time, concentration, and beating the A thing back into its hole...