My wife handles our finances (very well I might add), and we worked out a deal a long time ago where were she puts a small amount in my "play budget" every month. I'm the sole bread winner, and have two children under the age of three, so we don't have a lot extra, but I always know I've got something coming every month. When I get overtime or bonuses, more gets added in. If I want something expensive, I just have to buckle down and let the pot of money grow for awhile. I am also a patient bargain hunter and will wait for months for the right deal on something. My optics are all demo goods, and I'll buy out of season (i.e. a winter jacket in June), or last years close outs all the time. It's pretty rare that I pay more than 60% of retail for something hunting related
I try and keep value in mind too. Even though I love rifles, and would own a pile if I could, I choose to use a plain jane 30-06 as a "do-all" caliber, and spend the money saved on things that get me into the field like Supercub gas and Mountain House meals.
Clothing I can usually justify as coming out of the general household budget. I'm not big into camo or clothing "systems", so that helps. I also use my outdoor clothing year round for both work and play, so they don't really qualify as "hunting" gear.
Anyhow, that's what works for me.
Yk