This is a long shot...... BUT .... I have the Bikini frame from Kifaru and I have such a love/ hate relationship with it..... When I wear it, my head has to be forward (I'm looking down the whole time) due to the backpack being in the way and taller than my head (if that makes sense).... are we just stuck in a man's sport and have no choice or have you gals found something that works?