Every thing we do has positive and negative sides. It all depends on how it is approached. I love hunting. My wife thinks I spend too much time and money on it. For me, hunting is my church. She gets that, but would rather have me at home. I could spend every weekend during the season in the bush, over using my ability to hunt, and it would effect my life negatively. But, since I pursue it in a responsible manner, and don't allow it to be all consuming...it doesn't have a negative effect on my life. See the parallel here?