Reading through a couple pages of this reminds me I'm very fortunate at my age.
I basically have no limit on vacation. The owner and vp of the company are not going to care that I'm gone for 3 weeks in September. They dont care what time I get here or leave when I want or need to do stuff. It doesn't matter if I want to go do something on a Friday and take a 3 day weekend just because.
So long as my work is handled and no one has to hear about it from my customers, I'm good.
The only caveat is that when I'm not at work, I still have to worry about work sometimes. Thankfully, that can be as simple as responding to some text and emails and requesting our office to do handle something for me in my absence.