Great replies...I've always been single or if I was with someone i did what i wanted and spent what i wanted regardless....but now I'm getting ready to settle down and trying to budget some of this skit out as well...hence reading this thread
We have a weird dynamic..each keeping our money completely separated (we're on the same playing field financially) as weve both had exes that saw dollar signs and tried to take advantage.
She doesn't care what I spend and vice versa ....but I'm smart enough to realize or at this point in my life or respect her enough there needs to be more than peanut butter and jelly and fumes in the gas tank as season's end approaches
1) No more Starbucks runs with peeps at work (expensive, sugar filled, and I can't in good faith support their agenda)
2) Getting ready to do what one member said and set up a completely separate high yield short term investment account
3) With this inflation BS ..being more diligent about eating from the freezer (this adds up quick)
4) Get organized so I'm not buying the same wrench 2x
5) quit putting skit on credit cards..(unless absolutely necessary). .the interest each month is literally money thrown away.. some where the light bulb clicked ..that $100 in interest can go into #2
6) meal prep - carrying my food to work is so much cheaper and healthier than eating out..and I feel better doing it was well too..fast food is now ~$8 a meal ..($8.00 x 20 days = 160 a month (now add in starbucks run seperate..$4.00 x20= $80)... those 2 alone add up to 240 a month..which equals $2880 a year in your pocket..
We have a weird dynamic..each keeping our money completely separated (we're on the same playing field financially) as weve both had exes that saw dollar signs and tried to take advantage.
She doesn't care what I spend and vice versa ....but I'm smart enough to realize or at this point in my life or respect her enough there needs to be more than peanut butter and jelly and fumes in the gas tank as season's end approaches
1) No more Starbucks runs with peeps at work (expensive, sugar filled, and I can't in good faith support their agenda)
2) Getting ready to do what one member said and set up a completely separate high yield short term investment account
3) With this inflation BS ..being more diligent about eating from the freezer (this adds up quick)
4) Get organized so I'm not buying the same wrench 2x
5) quit putting skit on credit cards..(unless absolutely necessary). .the interest each month is literally money thrown away.. some where the light bulb clicked ..that $100 in interest can go into #2
6) meal prep - carrying my food to work is so much cheaper and healthier than eating out..and I feel better doing it was well too..fast food is now ~$8 a meal ..($8.00 x 20 days = 160 a month (now add in starbucks run seperate..$4.00 x20= $80)... those 2 alone add up to 240 a month..which equals $2880 a year in your pocket..
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