I work hard . Not trying to sound rude or anything but education is the best bet and work harder then everyone else.
I am a doctor so at this point I can buy whatever, whenever. As an encouragement to others I remember holding my newborn daughter in a grocery store and asking my wife "should we buy food or diapers?" because we couldnt afford both. Keep working hard, all honest work is admirable and is eventually rewarded. Most important money lesson by far?......Tithe first.
Having the time is key! Gear ain't gonna make or break a well planned and prepared for hunt. We used to do this stuff all the time in blue jeans, sneakers and cheap framed packs... And had a blast!
Hmmm maybe your "enjoyment" comes from things that other folks see as wasteful or moronic...(ie drinking, smartphones, 70" flat screens, 60k bro-trucks, ect, ect).