I’ve almost drawn down twice.
First time in the car. Headed into a right turn only lane that had curbs on both sides, already committed. Broad daylight, no other traffic. Dude in front comes to a full stop and puts it in reverse. Obviously he took a wrong turn. I motioned “forward” with my hand, which he took as an affront to his manhood. It would have taken him 4 seconds to complete the right turn and then pop a U-turn, but instead he gets out of his car and starts charging at me. I was carrying concealed. Put it in reverse and backed up a few feet. He stopped, got back in, and peeled out. If he hadn’t stopped, I’m not sure what I would have done. I suppose I would have tried to continue driving in reverse until I could U-turn and get away myself, but at some point it becomes unsafe driving in reverse the wrong way down a road.
Second time I was at a single female coworkers house with one other coworker having dinner. I was open carrying. Knock at door, she says “ignore it.” Weird. More banging on the door, “ignore it.” Then the dude appears in her backyard. She goes out and starts yelling at him to leave. In the commotion, he backs up enough that they’re around the corner, on the side of the house. I’m posted up at the back of the house, just around the corner listening, maybe 10 feet away. He doesn’t know that me or our other coworker are there - he thinks she’s alone. Keep in mind, this is obviously not a stranger. She knows him, but is telling him to leave.
After she told him to go away half a dozen times, I step out and tell him he’s committing felony trespass by not leaving. He immediately looks at her and yells “are you F**KING him?!” She keeps yelling to leave. He says “at least let me get my shit.”
Ok now I’m filling in the clues of what’s going on - this was her fucboi that we didn’t know about, and he’s got some clothes and crap in her bathroom, but he was expecting to come over for the night. She says she’ll go get his stuff, we go inside and lock the doors while he’s in the yard. He starts prying the sliding door open enough to squeeze through. Now it’s a home invasion. I tell him I’m calling the cops while I pull out my phone. He charged me while my hand is firmly on my Glock grip, still holstered. I didn’t flinch, but he stopped an inch short. Now we hear “911, what’s your location?” As I start talking to the emergency operator, he bolts back through the yard, jumps the back neighbors fence, and disappears.
After, she tells us he is on probation for other minor crap - probably DUIs and the like - so he would have gone to prison if the cops showed.
I was amped on adrenalin for hours. I would have been totally justified in shooting the guy, and frankly I questioned my decision NOT to draw for weeks. I basically won a game of chicken, but if he didn’t stop short, we would have been on the ground while I tried to draw my Glock from a level 2 holster. 50/50 shot at best that I come out on top in that scenario. I’m glad I didn’t draw, but I’m not sure I would make the same decision today. The charge was maybe 5 - 10 minutes after his arrival, so he was amped up and had been yelling for quite some time beforehand. I do think my open carrying influenced his actions, though. If I didn’t visibly have a weapon, I think he would have attacked me much sooner.