The only book you need is the Bible.
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Chaplain here. Recommend the Bible but there are also many good books to help.
Getting help for possible depression if first and foremost.
From there, books or workshops on active listening, recognition of danger signs and how to avoid hurting each other emotionally during arguments, and other aspects of good communication.
Praying for you, OP.