When I graduated high school I had a pretty specific plan for what I wanted to do in life. Graduated from undergrad with BS in exercise science and certified as an athletic trainer, without any debt. Then I graduated form a state medical center with a doctor of physical therapy degree. I accumulated debt in doing so, but was able to keep my level of debt from exceeding the amount of my expected starting salary. I made my last payment on that debt last December, 10 years out. I was the first of the grandkids on both sides to graduate from a university, with most of my relatives in the trades or farming.
There were certainly times when I was sitting in a graduate class accumulating debt while my friends and cousins were working in the trades and earning decent salaries that I wondered what I was doing. Also while I was a 30 year old paying off student loans instead of putting that money into retirement investments. Now I'm making a decent salary, my only debt is my house, and we have a comfortable life with some expendable income. I also have a job that I love doing , in a setting I love working at, and I can see myself being happy here for the next 30 years.
I have friends that work in the trades that entered the workforce young with low levels of debt and were able to start investing for retirement early. They are quite a ways ahead of me in that regard, but they are starting to notice the wear and tear on thier bodies. There are others that partied thier salaries away in thier 20's and now have wear and tear and no financial advantage over me. I have PT friends that have worked into ownership in private practice that are financially miles ahead of me and will likely be able to retire young and healthy. I also have PT friends that amassed 6 figures of debt and are chained to large monthly payments until they hit thier mid forties.
Long post for this point: figure out what will make you happy; money, time off, independence, stability, etc...and find a career you can achieve that will meet that goal without weighing you down for years financially. There are ways to do that in the trades and with college degrees, and all can be worthy careers that lead to high levels of success. And if you want to steer your kids towards something, make it having success with grades and GPA in high school. Being able to choose between the trades and a college degree for the same price leaves all the possibilities on the table.