GatorGar247
Lil-Rokslider
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- Aug 18, 2020
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I told my wife before we got married .There's 3 things I love .. Hunting ,fishing, and women.. she could pick 2 of the 3.. I've never heard 1 word about hunting or fishing in almost 20 years... A Hurricane will hit us on Wednesday night .. As long as my house don't flood I'll be headed to Colorado Saturday or Sunday .Second vote on the govt job. I’m an Environmental Project Manager for the state. Started with 4.5 weeks off a year plus 2 weeks holidays. I can grow up to 7 weeks off pretty quickly. I meet my deadlines so I have no problem getting an additional 2-3 weeks off unpaid if I want. If going the government route, you need to get a high level job through experience or a degree. Even with my PM level job, I still took a pretty big pay cut from the private sector. But I’m home every night with my family and they encourage time off instead of my private sector job that begged me to use vacation in January instead of peak hunting and fishing times - aka field work times.
I worked as a biologist at F&G for 5 years early on and was so broke I had to buy used tires for my POS vehicle - fly out hunting wasn’t even a consideration.
Rotating schedule can seem like a good deal but it’s not all rainbows. I worked a 7/7 schedule roughnecking. Everyone was divorced. A lot would start out there single, get married just fine because their spouse liked the $$$, then the dudes couldn’t take a 50% pay cut and restart a career once kids came and she would need him to walk away so it would end up in divorce. Also, how is your wife/future wife going to handle you working 7, hunting 7, then back to work 7. The same could be said for a shorter schedule where someone works 4, hunts 4, then works 4. I guess I’m just saying make sure you take into account your family/future family needs. A spouse’s attitude towards being away changes (understandably) QUICKLY once kids arrive. She may be cool with it at newlywed stage, but not once exhausted with one on the hip and one on the way. Will you be willing to potentially take a pay cut and career change to save your marriage in that case?
I almost forgot, it helps to marry a Dr. if working for the government!