Yeah after doing a ton of homework and test driving both the 5.0 F150 and the EcoDiesel CrewCab Ram. I have noticed the exact same pros and cons as MotorTrend,Car and Driver and a few other professional reviewers had.
Pretty much summed up is the Ram is heavier and feels heavier and definitely steers like one, not the most responsive and almost feels like it is being pulled wherever you steer. The take off is not the best but once it's up and going it's a stout motor. Where it really shines and I can only speak for this since I own a ram is the added weight makes for a very comfortable ride especially when pulling something.
I feel like the ram doesn't have the best field of view and the hood is a little overwhelming at times to see anything in front of the truck when pulling into a parking spot. Other than that I love the truck, rides like a champ, powerful and robust even off-road. Just not a fan of the steering, definitely not the most nimble truck on the market.
The Ford has some crazy stiff riding, but I feel much more controlling since the steering and handling is probably the best out of any truck I have driven. It has more freaking gadgets and features to satisfy the overall drive. The rear end though does want to loosen up on you when you hit a good pot hole, which concerns me a little when pulling something. Even in one of the online reviews they said the pulling of a trailer with the F150 felt at times a little sketchy and froggy due to the weight reduction from the aluminum body.
Overall I love the Ram, I love the look of them over the Ford, it's a beast off-road and pulls well. But the handling sucks and even with my Hemi, it's geared where there is a noticeable delay before she really wants to get up and move. Other than that I have nothing great to say about my Ram and I have confidence in there products,not dodge or Chrysler but Ram. 
But...... for me the overall experience,I'm gonna have to go with the F150.  The Ram has the Drivetrain, Interior and Looks I want but the F150 had more pros on my list. Either way the two trucks are some of the best out there.