Best Advice for New Dad

[North of 60]

Like some have noted above, i was terrified beforehand because the family i grew up in was less than optimal.

Nothing like it and be as good a role model as possible because they will watch you like a hawk. Ages 3 -14 were incredibly fun.

Have fun doing what they enjoy doing, and when parents and kids both enjoy the same activities that is simply wonderful. Mine loves the outdoors and was often out with me since he was about 3 yrs old till high school.

Give them your time, patience and love when they are young because that is the bank account of positive that will likely be needed when they hit the throes of adolescence.

 

[mtnbiker208]

if you want to stay married, wife is your number 1 priority by a long shot.
Kid is number 2.

 

[rogerdoger]

Don’t by a puppy anytime soon.

 

[Pwhite]

Give him attention even if you're tired. Give him a hug every time you get home from work. Let him make mistakes as long as he doesn't seriously hurt himself.

 

[Bushwacker44]

Take em with you.
Hunting, fishing, golf, work ect. My 3 boys happen to love the same hobbies as I do. I think its because I would take them from the start, I forgot about doing hobbies with friends but focused on my son's coming instead.
Don't be afraid to let them figure things out or to get hurt. Every good boy has broken bones or have scars to show the good times. It's scary as heck sometimes, but I think it needs to happen to have a sense of adventure an not be a wimp.
Dirtbikes, jumps, bb guns, slingshot sure seem to make a good red blooded American boy.
I sure don't have all the answers as my kids ain't college material, but they work hard, are respectful and treat there mom real well.
Hope they turn into good husbands and fathers.