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Lil-Rokslider
Ya, pretty rough. Conner had a pretty rough 8 years with a severe form of Epilepsy. My struggle hasn't been anything compared to what my wife went through and is still going through. But I have had multiple things happen that I can only describe as being led to by my own "Jay Birds". Too many to list, but I have to mention 2. First was finding a grief camp for families that have lost kids just weeks after his passing. I wasn't looking it just fell in my lap and there aren't many of these anywhere and it happened to be 30 minutes away! My wife wasn't getting out of bed, but we had three little girls 7, 5, and 2 at the time. It truly saved our family. #2 The next was being led on on Ironman journey. I never done so much as a 5k but someone had shared a Team Hoyt video (one of the most powerful things I've seen) and my wife mentioned she could see me doing it with Conner someday. Then I went to a local gym that happened to be giving away a tri package of coaching, a race entry, and a free membership. I was going for my last time as my Dave Ramsey class I was in said I needed to cut my only elective monthly membership dues out of my budget. 1.5 years later I finished Ironman Cda holding a sign my wife made saying "we did it together".