My parents are in CA but are planning a move within the next year, though they are undecided where as of now. My father retired at Ft. Lewis right after I graduated high school and it was my brothers first and only duty station. Since they are leaving Cali I posted I have no family there as I won't by next year. My wife only has her father in her life who is in SC, but will be little if any help with our daughter as he is single and works nights for Boeing.1. Where is your family? More importantly, where is her family? This is a much bigger factor than you can see right now. Having help with kids and not having to drive 103984729 hours to see family becomes huge especially after having a couple of kids.
2. What do you plan on doing career/job wise? Will it require a bigger town/city?
3. City people? Country people? Lots of people like the romantic idea of living in some small town in the mountain states but far fewer can deal with the reality of this choice. Internet/web shopping makes it easier but it can get a little isolated. This question is especially important for your wife. Guys can generally handle it because of the outdoor opportunities but if your wife is miserable, it's not worth the trade-off.
There are more questions to consider but these come off the top of my head first.
We don't have specific jobs in mind but are planning on getting comp lit and horticultural degrees as of now, though we are still researching other degree options.
Our military experience is/was as linguist and we've worked for NSA. So IC / govt. work is an option.
My wife thoroughly enjoys the outdoors and grew up mostly in small towns in GA.
Thanks for your input and please feel free to PM me!
			
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