My son is doing great with his. He is able to shoot it well without being aftaid of recoil. 2 does with 108 eldm no issues, one with a 90tgk. Again no issues. The 108 ELDMs had a ton of damage and 30 yard runs, the 90 TGK damaged less meat but was a bang flop.
I think I like the TGK up close and save the ELDM for anything over 150y.