2 parter! I am glad I am not single, and why does every single woman think they are a 10?

[Minute_of_Antelope]

send her these

Most people have zero clue of what they're looking for. If i was to look for a video with the stats for her specs, she's mostly looking for a guy thats in probably 10% of the population (not counting the unavailable guys).

I'm gonna toot my horn here. I"m a truthful 6'4", make over $100K, and I'm in above average physical fitness. I account for less than 1% of our population. I've dated a LOT of smoke shows ... But they didn't fit my criteria as partner. I ended compromising on "doesn't have any existing kids" because she fit the bill 100% in every other way shape and form.

Bottom line, guy or girl, you need to have a truthful and honest evaluation of yourself, know what 2-3 characteristics are non negotiable(these should be something like belief/value system, personal responsibility, etc). Then figure out what preferences you have. Preferences can be negotiated (how much money they make, how attractive are they)

You can bump it with a hot chic all day long but if she's ugly inside or a complete mess of a person, then you won't want anything to do with her after date 4.

These picky chicks remind me a lot of you guys hanging on to your Utah elk points for 25 years.

 

[IDVortex]

Communication, commitment, patience, forgiveness all bring the building blocks to a marriage.

Resentment, lack of communication, lack of commitment and not knowing how to forgive will destroy a marriage and the 2 people that once loved each other.

Guys think we're the cream of the crop, but reality is most of us are just immature 13 year olds that only think with our penis.

Marriage isn't for the faint of heart, if the d word happened to my wife and I, I won't be looking again. Not due to the 'quality' of women, but due to my own Resentment.


Can't find a quailty woman in a bar, or on a porn site. Places guys always go to to seek out that thin blond hair blue eye gal that the TV and society makes you think you want.

 

[Beendare]

I didn't read the thread-

it seems to me there is a lot of complaining on both sides- Males and Females

Women that think they are Instagram models....and men that are immature and can barely balance a checkbook

The younger entitled generations have shown themselves to be lacking in character with a skewed reality- there lies the problem in both M&F.

Be a man of integrity....and search for a life partner thats reliable- one that will get her hands dirty.

Hint- She won't be an Insta model. grin

 

[Unicorn hntr]

I didn't read the thread-

it seems to me there is a lot of complaining on both sides- Males and Females

Women that think they are Instagram models....and men that are immature and can barely balance a checkbook

The younger entitled generations have shown themselves to be lacking in character with a skewed reality- there lies the problem in both M&F.

Be a man of integrity....and search for a life partner thats reliable- one that will get her hands dirty.

Hint- She won't be an Insta model. grin

I didn't read the thread-

it seems to me there is a lot of complaining on both sides- Males and Females

Women that think they are Instagram models....and men that are immature and can barely balance a checkbook

The younger entitled generations have shown themselves to be lacking in character with a skewed reality- there lies the problem in both M&F.

Be a man of integrity....and search for a life partner thats reliable- one that will get her hands dirty.

Hint- She won't be an Insta model. grin

Reality TV has not done us any favors.

 

[Billinsd]

Agree, American women are pretty terrible.

Midwestern and southern girls are the best!!! California is pretty awful and the girls are much uglier than when I was young.

 

[Billinsd]

Finding a good woman or man is extremely difficult. First and foremost it’s virtually impossible unless you are a good person. Second you have to be in a place or online to find them. My daughter is in a committed relationship with the perfect son in law, even though he doesn’t hunt. They plan to get married after college. They both met at high school in AP classes Freshman year and became friends senior year and now Sophomores in college. Parents are solid, Christian, good people. There were 500 kids in their senior class, out of that 500, there were less than 50 quality boys and girls in their circle of friends.

 

[Billinsd]

These picky chicks remind me a lot of you guys hanging on to your Utah elk points for 25 years.

Am I picky? I held on to mine for 18 years, long enough to get a quality rifle rut hunt that was worth it.

 

[Billinsd]

A good hardworking man that would take care of you is too boring.

Attractive younger women tend to be attracted more to excitement, confident, and/or flashy men. I remember talking to a gorgeous woman at a bar almost 30 years ago. Her fiancee was a San Diego Charger, who was wealthy, handsome, and a football player!! She had been trying unsuccessfully to dump him and he met her at the bar to try and get back with her. She told me, he was too nice and too boring. She liked the bad boys. I did see her fiancé later at the bar and wanted to ask him why he was wasting his time with her and he should move on.

 

[Billinsd]

For me, I blossomed in my 30s and really regret expecting some babe to want me when I was younger, I was so delusional. I grew up in Newport Beach and gorgeous women abounded, but the hot ones were very very picky, same when I moved to San Diego for college. In my 30s I had a great job, great career, great college education, and was confident. Now many of the women that wouldn’t look twice at me 10 years ago, who had gotten married and divorced with kids were very very attracted to me, and said I was handsome. Women go through phases as they age. After they are 30 and as they get older they want a stable man with a good job, at least in San Diego.

 

[Yoder]

For me, I blossomed in my 30s and really regret expecting some babe to want me when I was younger, I was so delusional. I grew up in Newport Beach and gorgeous women abounded, but the hot ones were very very picky, same when I moved to San Diego for college. In my 30s I had a great job, great career, great college education, and was confident. Now many of the women that wouldn’t look twice at me 10 years ago, who had gotten married and divorced with kids were very very attracted to me, and said I was handsome. Women go through phases as they age. After they are 30 and as they get older they want a stable man with a good job, at least in San Diego.

By then, they have been through 30 dudes and are used goods. Stable men with good jobs shouldn't give them the time of day.

 

[Fatcamp]

You guys got it all wrong, pick up some bimbo in a bar, boink her and dump her out along the road, never tell her your name or give her a phone #. But if you think your in luv bring her home give her a box not a big box but a nice one, she will ask what the box is for tell her all her stuff must fit in the box that way if she comes home and finds her box on the car port no questions just take the box and bye bye. Must be a poor person of judgement who goes lookin for a life mate on some web site. Married my childhood sweetheart at 19 she was 18 built a life together not all of it was smooth sailing one son, I wanted a big family but it was not meant to be. Heading towards 50 year annivesary.

I didn't go online looking for a life mate, I just got lucky and found one.

 

[long hunter]

I didn't go online looking for a life mate, I just got lucky and found one.

Must of been looking for something, any way congrats.

 

[Billinsd]

By then, they have been through 30 dudes and are used goods. Stable men with good jobs shouldn't give them the time of day.

I probably met one woman like that and yes she was the worst. My experience over 25 years ago was that divorced women in their late 20s and 30s had kids and the other few thought their husbands were supposed to keep them happy and divorced for lame reasons. Most I met hadn’t been through many men, usually a few and women that age without kids were rare and even more rare they were compatible for me and the most difficult they wanted me, lol. Most of these divorced women that were interested in me had dead beat husbands who weren’t helping support their kids. I realized the hard way I didn’t want any part of that!

 

[Fatcamp]

Must of been looking for something, any way congrats.

Well, when you are divorced, have primary custody of two little kids, work full time, don't drink or go to church, and work construction, options for interacting with the opposite sex are limited.

You folks can do what you want but I enjoy the company of women and have for a very long time. That's just me. I will say that the whole online thing was a bit of a train wreck and I had pretty much resigned myself to treating it like a joke. We will be married 9 years in July. Never been better and am thankful in a way I can't even explain.

 

[Yoder]

I probably met one woman like that and yes she was the worst. My experience over 25 years ago was that divorced women in their late 20s and 30s had kids and the other few thought their husbands were supposed to keep them happy and divorced for lame reasons. Most I met hadn’t been through many men, usually a few and women that age without kids were rare and even more rare they were compatible for me and the most difficult they wanted me, lol. Most of these divorced women that were interested in me had dead beat husbands who weren’t helping support their kids. I realized the hard way I didn’t want any part of that!

I'm on my second marriage. My current wife has two boys and a dead-beat ex that didn't pay child support. I met her on Match.com. I didn't care she had two kids since I had no intention of getting in a relationship, and she was pretty hot. She is also seven years younger than me. She wasn't interested in a relationship either which was perfect. We've been together now for 16 years. She is awesome. The first two dates, she wouldn't even let me pay for dinner. She told me she didn't want to rely on a man ever again. I had to finally insist on paying. My ex was an entitled stay at home mom that never worked a day in the 14 years we were married so I thought this was great. She is a great mom. She is a super hard worker and always pulls her weight. She is the most thoughtful person I have ever met. She appreciates everything I do for her. She is smart, funny, likes to hunt, fish and hike. She killed her first deer two years ago and somehow always catches bigger fish than me. It hasn't been all rainbows and unicorns. We have been through a lot together. About a year after we met, she was hospitalized after having some really bad headaches, and we found out she had a brain tumor. Seeing what she went through and how brave she was gave me nothing but admiration for her. I am truly grateful I met her. There are some good, divorced women with kids out there, don't write them all off. You just have to be careful.

 

[Mark.c]

I was lucky to experience some absolutely horrible girlfriends in my 20’s and 30’s. It was a good lesson on recognizing a bad relationship and not settling. I met my wife in my 40’s and knew I had found a good woman. The big attributes in my mind are respect for one another, fiscal responsibility, maturity and the ability to rationally discuss through issues. I think that’s where a lot of younger people like in the video fall short.

 

[thinhorn_AK]

I didn't go online looking for a life mate, I just got lucky and found one.

The internet is for finding hookups, not life long partners.

 

[Minute_of_Antelope]

Am I picky? I held on to mine for 18 years, long enough to get a quality rifle rut hunt that was worth it.

I mean it’s your tag do whatever, but that was 18 years of being single not hunting so that you could hold out for a guy taller than 6’3” 180 class buck.

 

[Billinsd]

I mean it’s your tag do whatever, but that was 18 years of being single not hunting so that you could hold out for a guy taller than 6’3” 180 class buck.

No, it was not 18 years of not hunting, that would be unacceptable! It was 18 years waiting to draw a limited tag to shoot a 350 bull and was totally worth it to me! I put in for several states over 25 years ago for limited entry deer and elk and it’s paid off well. I’m still able hunt big game every year, so long as funds and time is available.

 

[Mojave]

Midwestern and southern girls are the best!!! California is pretty awful and the girls are much uglier than when I was young.

I am married to a California girl. Beautiful.

I felt like Kentucky was the lone standout for beautiful women in the south.

Midwest is best. Wisconsin and Minnesota specifically.