I can easily see how a newb could be overwhelmed and discouraged. However, your friend has not seen where most of us started. I had camo from Kmart when I first started, a hand me down rifle and crappy boots. The crap gear I had had nothing to do with my unsuccessful hunts but the lack of knowledge on woodsmanship, etc. Yeah I own a lot of gear now that is probably way overpriced and I don't need but I can afford it and it makes me happy LOL. But you certainly don't need $5k to get started in hunting.