Depends on a lot, money, his personality, the dynamics between you two, your philosophy, Etc.
From reading the thread.
Get him what he wants, an HMR in 300 WM. Offer to cut and thread for a muffler, but let him pick barrel length and such, have him pick out the can as well (not a scythe though). Forcing a middling choice on him will likely result in the worst of everything with him still wanting more, but loosing the benefits of lower recoil.
Consider setting him up to learn. Offer some advice about recoil, then see if he still wants the 300 WM (he probably will). Then, before he ever shoots it, make him record accuracy with the 7mm-08 in positions he uses hunting. Hand him a few hundred practice rounds of 300 WM, keep a supply of practice rounds for the 7mm-08 as well, and retest accuracy with both at 6 months, as well as seeing which one he puts more rounds through.
Disclaimer: The above is not how I would opt to do things. Rather it is an attempt to fit advice to the individuals based on limited information from this thread. Advice is dangerous, if I was wiser I would probably be smart enough to hold my thumb (I'm typing this on a cell phone), but unfortunately for Rokslide I am not wise.