this thread may get some wild answers haha so here's mine. Sounds like she doesn't want any more "stuff". Quality time, remodel a room in the house together? Do all the cooking and cleaning together for a week, buy a book to read together. build her something, write her a poem and frame it, something that takes some time and effort. New vacuum, heated blankets, heated socks? ohhh, if you had getaway plans...recreate that inside the house? decorate the living room, put down plastic, sand, heat lamps, kiddy pool, palm trees, have the kids dress like hula dancers, boom, you're in hawaii. make some alfredo, play some music, grapes and wine, boom, you're in Italy. Even if it's not great, she oughta get a good laugh out of it. Might be better than "stuff" she'll forget about in a month. Good luck