I see all sides of this, I'm 34, have 3 young kids with all the joyous activities they do, and have a wife that decided a masters wasn't enough so doctorate here we come!!! In other words money flows out in all directions so tag increases feel like a punch below the belt at times. . .
That being said, I'm about 4 months away from my financial house being in order with debt paid off outside of my mortgage (maybe 1 month if the Dems send me more covid "relief"). Hunting is a priority for me, so I currently drive an 06 chevy with 230,000 miles (savings of $650/month), I golf occasionally but don't have a membership (savings of 700/year), I quit buying season tickets to football games (partially because the Huskers have sucked for awhile but I digress . . . Savings $1000/year), I drink occasionally with friends. But don't go to bars (call it $50 saved per/month). . . I also am buying some rental properties here and there (+$300/month way more when you consider the tax savings from depreciation), and perform some odd jobs for side cash when I want. Certainly some of this money saved and earned flows into my family living costs (3 wonderful days of wrestling and gymnastics tournaments this weekend!!!

), But overall when I want to go on a hunt I have the money set aside and I go do it.
As others have said, there are lots of species to hunt, but just like most things in life, If you really want to make something happen you will find a way!
So this whole rambling post to say, if you want to hunt elk, decide if you want to do that more than other things in your life and make the applicable changes! Or go find a higher paying job, lower cost house, or whatever you need to do so you can keep chasing the dream! (The dream is bugling bulls, don't let your wife convince you otherwise!!!)