The LOTR books are classics and Tolkhein is universally recognized for the impact these stories had on generations of readers AND authors. No need to consider yourself a nerd for loving these books. One interesting note for those of Scandinavian heritage, Tolkhein's love and admiration of the Viking sagas heavily influenced his own writing. The classic struggles of good vs. evil in the sagas and their fantastical characters, monsters, and creations based on Norse mythology were foundational for Tolkhein and hosts of other authors. The sagas were part of his inspiration just as the LOTR books have been the inspiration for others.
A combination LOTR tour and red stag or elk hunt would be an absolute bucket list trip for me and my family. Teddy Roosevelt (personal favorite president) paved the way for the introduction of elk in NZ.