i live in Santa Rosa. if you need anything..throw up the Bat-Signal.Thanks again for all the replies!!!
Heeding your advice, my wife and I have re-planned our time there.
S.F. is now out, instead, a full day of sightseeing along the Somoma coast, another day for the Woods and outskirts of Sonoma valley wine country. Our time in Napa will be mostly limited to the private tour we already booked. Some of the eateries above will be on the hit list!