Agreed, my first VA loan was just over 10%. Built my first for $54,000 1600ft on 1/2 acre. Nothing fancy. Sold it in the fall of 2019 for 380,000 after renting it out for years. No fancy phone here or truck payments. I bought my vehicles when I could afford them cash. I worked hard for that money and enjoyed plenty without having to go into heavy debt. But I'm old. I would not want to try to do it today, that is for sure and certain.My first house was 130k. I made about 45k a year. I worked it over and sold it for 240k. I bought a complete pos on 5 acres for 144k and developed a nice place which sold it for 350k while making about 50k.
Today any skilled labor can make 70k easy enough and top hands will be able to double that or more.
Not having car payments, the new iphone 27 and $43k worth of sitka and guns makes saving pretty easy. I hear the rent stories and completely understand as we were making 2k a month on our rental but today in spokane you absolutely can rent a place for $1k a month. Is it a great place in a nice neighborhood?....no, but do you want to fast track to a home or do you want to entertain in your rental.
Wealth is not about instant returns. It takes risk and time.
How many people complaining about the cost of homes have a top tier cell phone, a car newer than 10 years and credit card payments?
This is the time to talk to your grandparents who paid 10+% interest.
The first step to keeping money in your pocket would be to stop reading these forums and be at work.