Just from a numbers perspective, I think you can make a really solid case for renting vs. buying. We bought our house about five years ago and refinanced when rates were near the bottom. Ultimately, we bought our house and land so that we and our kids could grow up raising animals, gardening, and hunting and fishing right out the back door. It was a dream that we were extremely lucky to realize, but I seriously doubt it will gain *useable value at the pace of a decent stock portfolio. We knew going into the deal that we would have to sacrifice vacations and luxuries for several years in order to make it all work, but we were happy to make that trade.
*Keep in mind that in order to capitalize on market growth you have to sell. Most people will buy another home in the same market. That means you need to buy a cheaper/less desirable house when you sell the one that gained value. That isn't appealing to most people.
I’m 43, bought my first home when I was 20 years old.
Strictly from a numbers standpoint, buying has been WAY better financially for me.
My first house was a 4 bedroom. I didn’t need 4 bedrooms so I rented out 1-3 of the other rooms throughout the years. If you subtract the rent I collected from the roommates for the space I didn’t need during those years, it was cheaper than an apartment for just me. I also had a two car garage and way more space then if I had my own apartment, even with roommates in the house.
The value of the home also increased by about $110,000 when I sold it at the end of 2012.
I took $70k of the money from the sale, and used it for a down payment on a house for a rental property. I also used the remaining money, plus some more I saved up for a down payment on a new personal house. The rent recieved has always been more than my mortgage on the rental, So I am only out $70k. The value of the house has doubled since 2013($300k increase). 2 years ago I switched to a 15 year mortgage on the rental and my personal home. Rents keep going up. My mortgage is $600 per month LESS than the rent I collect on the rental currently. In 12 more years I’ll own both homes free and clear. The rental will more than pay the property taxes and home owner’s insurance on both homes plus lots of the utilities for my personal house.
In summary, buying a home at age 20 has cost me the same or less out of pocket than if I would have just rented. If I had to guess in 12 years when both homes have no mortgage, They will probably be worth $1.6-$2 million(very conservative estimate). At that time I will have zero monthly expense for housing since the rental income will cover the costs of both homes.
If I had just rented, I would have rent to pay the rest of my life, plus be missing out on owning $1.6- $2 million in assets between the two homes.
At least in my neck of the woods, buying a home has worked out WAY better than renting from a numbers perspective, and quality of life is significantly better as well.